Newsletter Sept 2025

RUOK? Week

RUOK? Day: Ask RUOK Any Day

Anna R. (Yr 9 student completing a Duke of Edinburgh Bronze Award) wrote,

This year, R U OK? Day falls on September 11th, with the theme ‘Ask R U OK? Any Day’. The desired aim is to allow those who may be going through a hard time to speak out, whenever they need help. Whether they’re a friend, colleague, family member, or partner, they may reach out to someone who cares. Recent research conducted by the R U OK? Foundation has shown that the well-being of people asked this question has increased. A third of Australians have reported that they’re asking more often. Most people often feel hesitant or unsure to ask and/or open up. However, most people say that they feel grateful, supported and cared for when someone reaches out.

Ask ‘R U OK? Any Day’ to save a life.

Bibi wrote,

One of our young members, T. recently shared a powerful experience on her way to work. On the bus, she overheard two teenage girls behind her joking about stealing from her bag. When T. made eye contact, the girls turned hostile, threatening to spit at her.

Instead of reacting with anger, T. calmly asked,Are you two OK?”

That simple question shifted everything. One of the girls replied with surprise,

“Oh, thanks for asking. I really appreciate it! No, we won’t spit on you. Have a good day!” They then left the bus, and the situation diffused.

I praised T. for her calmness and compassion. By asking “RUOK?” rather than condemning, she offered empathy and kindness—perhaps giving those teens their first glimpse of someone who cared.

As we step into RUOK? Week, let’s follow T’s lead: show compassion, and offer kindness before judgement.

Reflecting on past events

Reflection on Daffodil Month Pop-up Stall

The day started a little gloomy, but our bright yellow Petal-it-Forward daffodil posies brought sunshine to the stall. It was Anna’s very first shift, and together with Bibi, she welcomed curious passers-by.

During the handover between Henry and Anna, Bibi shared some tips about the value of a gentle “soft sell.” At CFS, we put people and planet first by showing genuine care, practicing sustainability, and offering the best service to our community.

Although the rain forced us to pack up an hour early, we still handed out 15 Petal-it-Forward daffodil posies, each one bringing a smile and a little brightness to someone’s day.

Event of August

2025 Annual Social Enterprise Festival by Anna R.

The 16th of August was the day of the annual Social Enterprise Festival, hosted by SECNA,(Social Enterprise Council NSW & ACT. It was a four-hour event, with stalls from various social enterprises from across the state. There were speakers and panelists, and various sessions where we got to learn about their social enterprises. It was great to hear how they structure their company in order to be for the people and community, while still making money. It was insightful and really interesting to go around to stalls and listen to each social entrepreneur talk about how their business has grown from when it was first launched. Overall, I’m very thankful for the opportunity to go to this festival, and I’ll most likely want to attend next year!

WHAT’S ON in August to Oct 2025?

Youth Mentoring Program

Dr Bibiana Chan, CF, and other CFS members in various professions are available to mentor young people, share their work experiences. Topics covered: study skills, time management, goal setting, getting motivated, write a resume that stands out of the crowd, job interviewing skills and assertive communication, etc.

If would like to refer any young people (12 – 30 year) whom you recently started a ‘RUOK?’ conversation to our FREE Youth Mental Health Program, please contact Dr Bibi via email: communityflowerstudio@yahoo.com or call 0412-613-073. Check out KYDS (Free Youth Mental Counselling) for their services. EPIC (Empowering Parents In Crisis) is a community building peer support platform “For parents & carers of young people by parents & carers of young people“.

A new resource: Self-Compassion for Teens

with a page dedicated for the adults caring for their teenagers: resources for the adults


RUOK? Week Pop-up Stall on Sat 13th Sept

This RUOK? Week, we’ll be giving out beautiful yellow rose stems for you to petal-it-forward to someone who might not be feeling OK. Drop by our stall, meet our friendly volunteers, and share your thoughts on the challenges of following up after asking “RUOK?” You’ll find us at the corner of Willoughby Rd and French’s Rd, right outside Little Giant Roaster Café.

Together, let’s spread kindness and keep the conversation going. Here is a link to find out the health benefits of receiving (and giving) flowers .


Laughter Yoga Spring Program

The first class the 2025 Laughter Yoga Spring Program is scheduled for Tues, 9th Sept to coincide with RUOK? Week. (see the photos below). High School students will co-lead with Bibi. Join us for some great exercises and a good laugh! Click HERE to register.

Join us for a special afternoon tea on Tues 9th Sept to welcome new members to the 2025 Spring program. Laughter is the Best Medicine! Laughter Yoga lifts your mood, improves health, and helps you connect with others while managing life’s challenges with laughter. Each session includes 45 minutes of laughter, gentle exercise and dancing (all fitness levels welcome—even sitting down!) followed by 15 minutes of informal chat and refreshments.

Hear from Dr. Kataria, the founder of Laughter Yoga, who reminds us that laughing for just 10 minutes a day brings real health benefits. As Dr. Bibi says—try laughing along with Dr. Kataria’s YouTube clips, and you’ll feel so relaxed and happy you’ll be hooked!



CFS Event of the Month

We are currently seeking an Event Organiser to coordinate these monthly events, each hosted by a different member with prior experience in organizing similar activities. Bibi will soon circulate a Google Doc to create a roster for 2025. We warmly welcome your ideas and suggestions—feel free to email them to Bibi!


Event of the Month for Sept and October

Dried Flower Arrangement Workshop for CFS members and invited guest. This workshop is to prepare for floral exhibits for our Secret Garden Event to celebrate Mental Health Month.

Date: Sat 27th Sept, 2025. Time: 1 – 3 pm.

Venue: Chatswood Youth Centre

Send an email to Bibi (communityflowerstudio@yahoo.com) to find out more details.

Most tickets are allocated for youth (14 – 30 yr). Book your tickets via Humanitix here.

New mental health podcasts added to CFS webpage. Here is one of them.

Podcast (in Cantonese) on the application of AI in psychotherapy.

By Dr Bibiana Chan

If you feel like supporting youth mental health, please consider making a tax-deductible donation to CFS. Your support will help young people learn life skills and find meaningful employment.

Michelle Benson published in LinkedIn an article entitled “𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗱𝗶𝗱 𝘄𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗻𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗼𝗿? “She is referring to the term “non-profit” which is a tax reference, that unfortunately grew legs and became a label.

Bibiana Chan responded, “Absolutely. Perhaps a better terminology is ‘For-Purpose’. The Community Flower Studio is a youth-focused charity with a mission to help youth learn life skills and find meaningful employment. Your generous donations are tax-deductible.”

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Download the Return & Earn App onto your phone and nominate ‘Petal-it-Forward’ as the charity campaign for your refund to go. An anonymous sponsor will match the amount donated, so your contribution will be doubled!

Good news!!!

As of 28/6/25, we raised $573.5 A total of $573.5 donation was made by our anonymous sponsor to support our ‘PETAL-IT-FORWARD’ CAMPAIGN.

Your generous donations are much appreciated. The Community Flower Studio is a charity registered with the Australian Charities and Not-for-Profit Commission (ACNC). Donations of over $2 will receive tax deductions. Please kindly make a donation to the Community Flower Studio (CFS) by direct debit. Our NAB account details are as follows: BSB No.: 082-212, Acc No.: 729-933-729

There are many ways to support CFS: become a member or contribute to the columns here. I’m always looking for a great recipe passed down from generation to generation. If you have a story to share, either write a short piece around 250 words or shoot us some photos. If there is a book or a movie you want to write a review, the CFS e-Newsletter will be happy to share with our e-Newsletter subscribers.  Contact Bibi on communityflowerstudio@yahoo.com

If you would like to purchase a DIY Succulent Terrarium Kit for a loved one or a friend as a present, order online here ! This is also a ‘Succulents in Colour-Sand Glass’ DIY Kit which comes with a youth-approved instruction sheet and a QR code to the YouTube clip of previous workshops. Available here. You can also purchase a DIY Flower Kit from our online shop, click Flower Crown

Flower of the Month

Calendula

By Bibi

Calendula, or pot marigold, is a cheerful flower with bright yellow and orange blooms. Easy to grow, it’s loved for both beauty and usefulness.

Planting & Positioning
Calendula enjoys full sun but tolerates light shade. Plant in well-drained soil enriched with compost. Sow seeds directly in the garden or in pots, spacing 20–25 cm apart. Seeds germinate quickly and can be sown from spring through autumn in mild climates.

Watering & Feeding
Keep soil evenly moist, watering at the base to prevent mildew. Fertilize lightly every 4–6 weeks to encourage more flowers.

Maintenance & Pests
Deadhead spent blooms to extend flowering. Pinch back young plants for bushiness. Calendula attracts bees and butterflies, while helping deter pests, though aphids and mildew may appear.

Harvesting & Uses
Calendula petals are edible—perfect for salads, teas, or garnishes. Known for soothing skin, they are widely used in balms and natural remedies. Harvest blooms in the morning, and dry them for later use.

Fun Facts

  • The name calendula means “little calendar,” reflecting its long bloom season.
  • In folklore, it symbolized joy and protection.
  • During World War I, its petals were used to treat wounds.

A bright, healing flower, calendula brings sunshine to any garden!

Check out the YouTube clip to learn how every part of Calendula can be used.


For a limited time only, ‘Pregnant Onion’ is available for sale at the CFS Flower Shop.

Plant of the Month

Kangaroo Paws

By Anna R.

Native to Western Australia, the Kangaroo Paw (Anigozanthos) dazzles with its vibrant, velvety flowers and unique claw-like shape. They are a member of the bloodwort family Haemodoraceae. Blooming in shades of red, yellow, orange, and green, it’s a favourite for adding bold colour to gardens and floral arrangements.

This hardy perennial thrives in full sun and well-drained soil, making it perfect for low-maintenance landscapes. Its nectar-rich blooms attract birds and pollinators, adding life to any outdoor space. With minimal watering and high drought tolerance, Kangaroo Paw is a stunning, sustainable choice for Australian gardens.

FUN FACTS:

Indigenous people used Kangaroo Paws for food and medicinal purposes and were useful for skin ailments. Extracts from the kangaroo paw flower exhibit anti-inflammatory attributes, offering relief for irritated or sensitive skin. .

Kangaroo paws grow from underground rhizomes that store starch and water, allowing them to survive and re-sprout after fires and during droughts. 

The flowers breed to attract perch birds such as honeyeaters.

The Kangaroo Paw is Western Australia’s national flower.

Propagation by division:

Let’s hear from the expert on how various cultivates are developed at the King’s Park in Perth, Western Australia.

Book Review

Long Walk to Freedom by Nelson Mandela

By Adam C. and Wing C. with Chat-GPT
Nelson Mandela’s autobiography is not only the story of one man’s life, but a testimony to the endurance of the human spirit against oppression. His 27 years in prison are recounted without bitterness; instead, they reveal a man who refused to let hatred chain his heart, even as his body remained behind bars.

Reading Mandela’s words, I cannot help but think of my own past. In 1949, when I was just 14 years old, my family was forced to flee our homeland as the Red tide swept across China. We came from a well-off family with political ties to the National Party, and staying would have meant persecution, perhaps worse. My father—your grandfather—uprooted everything we had and led us to Hong Kong, then a British colony. There, we faced discrimination under colonial rule, yet we endured, carving out a new life and raising three children in freedom.

It was not the same as Mandela’s 27 years behind bars, yet the essence was similar: the painful loss of home, the weight of injustice, and the long, uncertain journey toward dignity. I see in Mandela’s struggle a mirror of the sacrifices my parents made, and the resilience demanded of all who are forced to walk away from their homeland for the hope of liberty.

What Mandela teaches us is that freedom is not simply the absence of chains or the right to speak, but the courage to stand up for justice without surrendering to hate. His leadership was not about wielding power, but about serving people—even those who once oppressed him.

For me, Long Walk to Freedom is both an extraordinary history of South Africa and a personal reminder: the fight for freedom is never abstract. It is written into the lives of those who lose everything yet keep walking forward. Mandela’s long walk is also, in some sense, mine. And in reading him, I am reminded that freedom, though costly, is always worth the journey. I dedicate this book to everyone, in every land, who is still walking their own road to freedom.


Personal Note by Wing C.

Like my father, I too made my own walk to freedom—leaving Hong Kong in 1992 with my three-year-old son, before the Handover. Our family’s story of displacement and resilience has repeated across generations. Reading Mandela reminds me that the long road to freedom is never walked alone, and one day I will write my own review.

 

Recipe of the Month

The Vegan Blueberry Banana Muffin by Toni Okamoto. Photo credit: Teresa Lam.

  • 1 ½ cups of mashed ripe bananas (about 3 medium bananas)
  • ¼ cup of granulated sugar
  • ⅓ cup of canola or vegetable oil, plus more for greasing
  • 1 teaspoon of baking powder
  • 1 teaspoon of baking soda
  • ½ teaspoon of salt
  • 1 ½ cups of whole wheat or all-purpose flour
  • 1 cup of fresh or frozen blueberries

Instructions:

Step 1: Preheat the oven to 350F/175C and lightly grease a muffin tin (or alternatively, lightly grease some paper liners).

Step 2: Then, add the bananas to a large bowl and mash them using a fork. Add the sugar, oil, leavening agents, salt, and flour to the mashed bananas. Gently stir until well combined. However, be careful not to overwork the flour, as it can lead to dense vegan banana blueberry muffins.

Step 3: Next, carefully fold the blueberries into the batter and divide the batter between the muffin pan cups. Make sure to fill each cup to the top. Bake for 25 minutes. Then, allow the muffins to sit in the pan for at least 20 minutes before transferring to a wire rack to cool further.


From the Desk of Bibi

Fathers’ Love: Gentle but Strong, Quiet but Lasting

By Dr Bibiana Chan

At yesterday’s Community Flower Studio pop-up stall, I was reminded of a kind of love that often doesn’t get as much attention — the love of a father for his child.

It started with a family of three — daddy, mummy, and a bright-eyed three-year-old boy. Our high school volunteer, Henry, handed them a “Petal-it-Forward” Daffodil Posy as part of Daffodil Month. The whole family’s faces lit up. After thanking us, they lingered, curious about the other products on our table.

Their attention was quickly caught by our mini succulent pots, each decorated with a gum nut and a little red toadstool mushroom. The little boy carefully chose his favourite pot. As I handed it over, I noticed a small succulent leaf that had fallen onto the pebbles inside. It wasn’t just a leaf — there was a tiny green sprout emerging from it.

I smiled and said to the little boy,

Look! There’s a baby succulent here. How about you look after this baby while Mummy and Daddy look after the plant?”

His eyes lit up, and he waved enthusiastically as the family crossed the road to continue their day.

A few minutes later, rain began to pour. Another volunteer, Anna, arrived for her first shift, so I asked Henry, who had been helping, to give her a quick handover. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw the father from earlier walk past our stall. Then he passed again. He didn’t interrupt — just kept glancing around as if searching for something.

Eventually, he left and crossed the road. But soon, he returned, looking more intently at the ground near our stall.

“Are you looking for something?” I asked.

Yes,” he said. “The little succulent leaf that was on top of the pot.”

I told him not to worry — you can just tear off a bottom leaf from the mother plant and a new baby will appear. He nodded politely and crossed the road again. This time, I watched him retrace the exact path his family had taken earlier.

Then it happened — a little spark in his eyes. “Found it!”

Continue reading here.

Subscriber’s Corner

A field trip at Ferndale Park

By Henry Gebert.

We started our bushwalk at Bartels Park, after everyone had gathered and been briefed on the history of Ferndale Park. Our goal was to follow and finish the Rail2River trail along the creek, then walk back to where we started. Bibi also announced a ‘Spot a Fern’ game to encourage active observation of the environment.

The beautiful Ferndale Park

Just after starting the bushwalk, our group split into pairs because everyone walked at different speeds and did not stay together, resulting in some of us taking different paths. We later rejoined and were able to explore a part of Ferndale Park that had not been visited by CFS bushwalks before, which was an exciting part of the journey.

Once we returned to Bartels Park, we shared the types of ferns we saw and other interesting findings, such as sightings of black cockatoos. To finish the bushwalk, Bibi handed out some ferns for participants to keep.

A variety of fern species can be found at Ferndale Park.

Greetings from Teresa Lam while visiting USA.

Mount Gretna Outdoor Art Show by Teresa Lam

I have been lucky enough to spend this cold, wet Sydney winter in a beautiful part of the USA called Mount Gretna. The houses here nestle among tall trees, and most have charming porches. In the summer, Mount Gretna comes alive with a variety of activities in July and August, the highlight being the outdoor Art Show.
The 51st annual show, held “Under the Trees of Old Chautauqua,” took place on the weekend of August 16–17. Over 200 artists exhibited their work in a wide range of mediums, including wool, metal, watercolour, oil, glass, and more. My favorites were a pelican metal sculpture, poppies in oil, and a painting made from wool.

I was lucky to meet a local artist, Eleanor, who showed me her intricate dollhouses—amazing detail! Beneath the tall trees, the small town buzzes with creativity, from theatre to music to art.This lovely environment has provided the perfect spot for much-needed rest and recharge.



COMMUNITY FLOWER STUDIO LOGO EXPLAINED

Community: CFS is a community to support young people facing mental health challenges.

Creative: CFS hosts events to unleash young people s creative talents.

Resource: CFS provides members with resources to enhance their wellbeing.  

Support: CFS  offers support to members to develop their potential.

Growth: CFS fosters a growth mindset which is helpful in dealing with challenges.

Recovery: CFS sees recovery as achievable and a journey to cherish.

CONTACT US

Email: Communityflowerstudio@yahoo.com

Website: http://www.communityflowerstudio.org Mobile: 0412 613 073

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Address: 10-12 Clanwilliam St., Willoughby, 2068, NSW, Australia.

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