Invent a New Way to Make New Friends – U Shape Us

By Dr Bibiana Chan

During my recent visit to Canberra, I arranged to meet Fiona again. We spent hours talking about our shared experiences and challenges as founders of social enterprises. Although U Shape Us and Community Flower Studio (CFS) operate in different spaces, we both share a strong belief in using meaningful activities to bring people together, build connections, and create positive social impact.

Like many social entrepreneurs, we both have a clear vision and mission of what we hope to achieve. The challenge is always the same: how do we scale our ideas while keeping the original spirit and authenticity alive?

My experience with U Shape Us reminded me that connection does not always require complicated programs or technology. Sometimes, all it takes is a simple prompt, a willingness to share, and the courage to listen to someone else’s story.

Interestingly, this conversation with Fiona came at a perfect time. Community Flower Studio recently received a small community grant to host three “Cha, Chai and Coffee Chats” during Mental Health Month. This year’s theme is “A little connection goes a long way” — a message that perfectly reflects the purpose behind U Shape Us.

I shared with Fiona my idea of setting up three tables at each coffee chat, with a set of U Shape Us cards placed in the familiar 4 x 4 format. I will also make an effort to invite some high school students to join the conversations. With free hot or cold drinks, plus yummy muffins and croissants as refreshments, I am sure we will attract a handful of intergenerational participants who are willing to sit down, play, and share their stories.

Perhaps these simple conversations will create moments of surprise, laughter, and connection — a young person discovering a cassette tape for the first time, a senior sharing a forgotten childhood game, or strangers realising they have more in common than they expected.

I invited Fiona to let me know when she next plans to visit Sydney. I hope we can continue our conversation — and perhaps create more opportunities for people of different generations and backgrounds to connect through stories, memories, and shared laughter.

Click HERE to learn Fiona and her daughter’s journey in developing these cards.

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